Self-confidence is one aspect of personality
that is very important in human life. Self confident people are confident about
their own abilities and have realistic expectations, even when their
expectations are not realized; they stayed positive and can take it.
Definition
Self-confidence is a mental or
psychological condition of a person who gives a strong confidence in him to do
or perform any act. People who do not believe in themselves have a negative
self-concept, lack of confidence in his ability, because it is often kept to
them. Self confidence is a mental or psychological condition, which individuals
can evaluate the entirety of her strong belief in giving him the ability to
take action in achieving various goals in life.
People who have good self-confidence, they have
positive feelings toward themselves, have strong beliefs on him and had
accurate knowledge of the capabilities. People who have good self-confidence
are not the only person who feels capable of (but not really afford) but is a
person who knows that he can be caused by experience and calculation that he
did.
Synonyms: aplomb, inner strength, positive
self-image, self-assurance
Personality traits of people with
low self-confidence
When this is linked to the practice of everyday
life, people who have low self-confidence or have lost confidence, tend to feel
/ be as below:
• Do not have anything (desires, goals, targets)
which fought energetically
• Do not have a decision to step decisive
• Easily frustrated or give up when faced with a
problem or difficulty
• Less motivated to go forward, laziness or half
and half
• Often fails to accomplish its tasks or
responsibilities
• Awkward in dealing with people
• Can not demonstrate the ability to speak and the
ability to listen to a convincing
• Often have unrealistic expectations
• Too perfectionist
• Too sensitive
Help: low self-confindence
Counselling, life
coaching, and hypnotherapy are common therapies used to help
improve self-confidence.
Reference
·
Raj Persaud. The Motivated Mind. p. 295.
·
Myers, Jane; Willise, John. Villalba, Jose. (01/01/11). "Promoting
Self-Esteem in Adolescents: The Influence of Wellness Factors". Journal
of Counseling and Development 89: 28–30.
·
"The Free Dictionary". Farlex. Farlex.
· Timko, Alix;
England, Erica. Herbert, James. Foreman, Evan. (Fall 2010). "The Implicit
Relational Assessment Procedure as a measure of Self-Esteem". The
Psychological Record 60 (4): 679
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