Bullying
is a distinctive pattern of deliberately harming and humiliating others. It's a
very durable behavioral style, largely because bullies get what they want—at
least at first. Bullies are made, not born, and it happens at an early age.
Bullies
couldn't exist without victims, and they don't pick on just anyone; those
singled out lack assertiveness and radiate fear long before they ever encounter
a bully. No one likes a bully, but no one likes a victim either. Grown-up
bullies wreak havoc in their relationships and in the workplace.
Bullying is a
serious issue. There are many reasons for bullying but none are so serious that
they cannot be overcome with the right treatment. This type of behavior must
be curbed as it has proven to have lasting psychological effects on the victims
and lasting effects on the bully as well. Knowing what bullying is and what the
signs of bullying are is a step in the right direction in stopping it in its
tracks. There is help for both the bully and the victim and anyone who knows
that bullying is going on is responsible for helping to get the process of help
going. It may not be happening to you personally, but it is everyone’s
responsibility to help stop it.
my opinion is bully should be stopped with the approach of the perpetrators and victims of bullying. while keeping its prevention can be harmonies at home and do not curb the wishes of children.
http://www.theravive.com/research/The-Psychology-Of-Bullying
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