Developmental tasks elderly

According to Erickson, the elderly readiness to adapt themselves to the task or adapt, the development of an advanced age is influenced by the growth process in the previous stage.

If someone on the stage of growth prior conduct everyday activities as well as regular and harmonious relationships with the people around him, then at an advanced age he would still do the activities he used to do in earlier developmental stages such as sports, develop hobbies fished and others.

The task of the development of the elderly are as follows:
a. Prepare yourself for a condition that decreases
b. Prepare for retirement
c. Forming good relationships with people his age
d. Preparing for a new life
e. Make adjustments to social life / society as laid
f. Prepare for death and the death of a spouse

Developmental Psychology (Erikson Stages: Intimacy vs. Isolation)

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Developmental Psychology (Erikson Stages: Intimacy vs. Isolation)

Erikson describes intimacy as a process of self-discovery as well smelting yourself in other people, intimacy also requires a commitment to other people. According to Erikson, if a person fails to develop intimate relationships in early adulthood, then he will experience isolation. (Santrock: 2012)

Failure to establish a relationship like the lyrics of the song can hurt an individual's personality and cause Confusion. When experiencing a failure then the individual is likely to shut down and become more selective when choosing a mate.

Cognitive Psychology (Forgetting and Remembering)

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Cognitive Psychology (Forgetting and Remembering)
 
Deliberate forgetfulness ( Motivated Forgetting ) is a conscious repression of the memory , which is generally done to avoid the memory of a person experiences traumatic . When someone refuses to discuss or think about a traumatic experience , he might start to forget the experience . ( Solso : 2007) . 

Defense mechanism ( Defense Mechanisms ) Freud one of them is repression . Repression ( repression ) is the act of pushing the thoughts , memories or feelings that threaten out of consciousness . Freud states are unconscious repression to protect ego.Memori repressed - memory ( direpres ) is a painful memory . ( Solso : 2007) 

Everyone has experienced bad events , which ultimately stored in the memory of our brain . Like the lyrics of the song describe someone who wants all the memory of the couple who never hurt him was lost . Because when considering all the painful memories of the partner will make him come back depressed . Thus, he tried to protect himself , he does not want to constantly upset because it will only hurt himself. He tried to forget all the bad memories in a way not to say anything about her ex and will not think about it anymore .

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ulil doll phobia

Ø What is the initial cause of the phobia?

When he was little he was in telling a tale, the tale is told about the little boy who was playing with her ​​doll, the doll is stuffed cucumber. The doll suddenly turned into a doll ulil, ulil doll is attached to his body and would not let go. Ulil doll it would come off unless he was taken to the taro tree because there is a place of residence. It was one tale that to this day continues to haunt him.
 
Ø What is the link to the pattern recognition Phobia ?Pattern recognition ( pattern recognition ) involves a day-to- day complex interactions between sensation , perception , memory , and cognitive search in order to pattern recognition . No matter how complicated the process of recognition of an object , in fact the process is completed less than a second . ( Solso : 2007) .When he is told about a little fairy tale ulil doll , doll story ulil is received through the senses of hearing ( sensation ) , after he listened to the stories he interpret that ulil was creepy , funny, and very scary ( perception ) . The meaning then stored in the memory of his brain into the long -term memory (long term memory ) .Ø Why do so into the long term memory ?Stimulus that is easy to remember and can directly enter into long-term memory (long term memory ) is when we engage the emotions , there are three , namely : Fun , grief / fear , and pesonal . Ulil doll is a scary thing for him , so terrifying events in his childhood has been stored in his brain until he became a great and long-term memory .Ø Is there a template matching to do also with a phobia ?Template matching is the idea that the experience of a lifetime we have established a large number of templates , and each template associated with a specific meaning . People who already have a template of a form in the memory , to recognize living by comparing / matching emphasis on tangible form , exact / match . ( Solso : 2007)

Kiki on his childhood experiences have formed a large number of templates and already has a specific meaning in the memory. Kiki has ulil it make sense that the doll is a very scary thing then when he later saw the doll ulil then he would be terrified. Because he was often at his friends trap using ulil doll so he tried to change that perception. He talked with me this time he's trying to change the perception that initially interpret ulil scary doll puppet became commonplace and not scary. But even if he had tried, when he was in his trap again then he returned hysterical fear. Why? Because perceptions about ulil doll is a scary doll that had formed in his brain, so even though he tried to fight it can not be changed.

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Cognition In Selling Process

Selling activity is not easy , a lot of people who end up out of business because they can not run their business because sales strategy wrong , do not have sufficient funds to run its business , and others .Cognitive psychology is the science of information processing , cognitive psychology struggling with how we acquire and process information about the world , how the information is stored and processed by the brain , the way we solve problems , think and compose language , and how these processes  in behavior can be observed . ( Solso , 2007)Cognition plays an important role in the activities of buying and selling , because we are here required to have a unique and creative strategies to attract consumers to prefer products or services that we provide.First thing we do is we have to be able to build a sales strategy ahead of time before we start a business , the way we seek information through interviews with the vendors who are experienced in the field , when we have received such information , it is stored and processed by the brain , so that new ideas or unique strategies and creative to appear, so we were able to start a business .The second one before we do the business we also have to ensure the quality of products or services to be offered to consumers , whether we are worthy product and the consumer should be proud that they would not be disappointed .The latter , Good service during the sales process , we as sellers have to provide the best service to consumers . Because of the attitude that we show in front of consumers is affected . If we offer a product with a face that arrogant or rude words , then the consumer will perceive that we see it is not a friendly salesman so he might not come back again to buy our products .To avoid that we as the seller should be able to please the consumer , we must still provide good service and to be patient when dealing with customers who may be annoying and give the best smile .

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Short-term memory in cooking

Cooking is not a simple task , when cooking just imagine howmany herbs we have to remember , whatever the dose of each spice in cookingwe want to serve , how much time is required in the process of frying ,steaming and boiling .When cooking our brains have received thousands of information through our sensesespecially the sense of sight and sense of taste . We begin to recognize spiceskitchen and cooking techniques in using the senses of sight and we startedrecognize the taste of each dish using the sense of taste , which then informationthat we keep in the brain ( memory ) .Memory that we remember only the information of interest for us , if the activitycooking is exciting and fun for us then we will providefull attention ( Attention ) in cooking so that information from sensory memory stagewhen we give attention then be transferred to a short-term memory ( short term memory ) .There are 2 ways to improve short-term memory is donegrouping and repetition .

• Grouping ( Chuncking ) is a grouping of information , so when cooking easier we can group the kitchen spices . Suppose comparison herbs , spices bali to make a comparison of the material  1ons chilli + 1ons garlic +  2ons onion + 2ons brown sugar , with a group like that we are so much easier to remember

•  Repetition ( Rehearsel ) repeat back information consciously , Cooking is easy if there is a willingness to learn , to try and repeat it often memory is getting stronger and we will get the desired flavor .

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Beautiful perception

Why business salon and beauty products business to be very profitable? The answer ask ourselves each, how do we perceive the beautiful people? Because our senses are very often receive stimuli that aired on the television advertising of beauty products with an advertising model that slender, sharp nose, white, long hair, black, shiny, and others. Nothing right ad model spotty cosmetic products, black skin, fat, that her hair was a lot of ticks, if there is an advertising model like that I guarantee there is not going to buy the cosmetic products. Why be so? Since we already perceive that it's pretty rich models in television advertisements, they are willing to how much money would they spend so terlihar such beautiful models on television advertising.
Did you know , for it does not need to look pretty expensive , do not need to spend a lot of money because the real beauty is in the faith that the women have . Rasulullah Sallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam said : 

This is a world of jewelry , and the best of women's jewelry is shalihah . ( Narrated by Muslim ) . 

To be a woman shalihah we do not need to spend a lot of money . In Al - Quran has described some of the characteristics of women salehah , namely : 
1 . Obedient to the commands of Allah and his Apostle ( QS.An - Nisaa : 34 )
2 . Always close the genitals ( QS.Al - Ahzab : 59 ) 
3 . Keeping in view ( QS.An - Nur : 31 )
4 . Obedient and faithful to their husbands in obedience commands 
5 . Soft and Shy ( QS.Al - Qasas : 25 ) 
6 . Patient and not easily discouraged 
7 . Intelligent and knowledgeable
 8 . Lovers and compassionate 
9 . Humble, kind , and caring for others 

Those are some characteristics of women shalihah , it is not difficult to go through all that as long as we are sincere for Allah SWT . Physically beautiful is not the most important , why should be beautiful but not coupled with good morals . Being beautiful is a lot of profit , and there is no doubt in the community is often the case that social discrimination among women with flawless ordinary woman . However, be aware that to be beautiful is not the most important priorities we not live in this world but only to worship Allah SWT .

 " I have not created jinn and man but that they worship me " . ( Adh - Zariyat : 56 )

 Attitudes or behavior in everyday life is influenced because of the perception . Therefore let us straighten our perception of " Pretty Woman " , never mind we are competing to be beautiful in the eyes of other people, it is sufficient to simply beautiful in the eyes of Allah SWT with good morals .

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Psychological disorders in prisons

Psychological disorders causing suffering to prisoners . It may not be appear directly , because suffering does not appear as a psychiatric disorder , but come in the form of anger , violence , injuring themselves or tend to go away from public . Because of this reason , the most common form of psychological disorder such as anxiety. Anxious . Everyone absolutely have felt anxious . This is something that is normal in human life . We feel anxious before a job interview , when we have to speak in public , or if we know that we have to face the difficult situation for someone . Anxiety can appear in several forms , feeling your heart beat faster , your mouth feels dry , your face or hands become sweat , your view becomes blur , dizzy , choking feeling , headache , neck on pain , shoulderache or stomacache , feeling sick or going faint. Think about the last time you feel anxious , and try to remind about feeling . Your anxiety form may be different with friends or colleagues. Sometimes there is a feeling that you are not there , or the circumstances surrounding the unreal. It can be scary and adds anxiety . For most people , the anxiety appears before an important event happens , though of course not always happen for the situation . Anxiety can be a constant thing for some people , especially if they have pressure at job , or because of personal problem . They can feel these symptoms every day . There are many pattern to face anxiety . If you are not on prison , you can share with friends or family and try to decrease your worries . You can go or do something , painting rooms , playing football , or driving around the city to distract your mind from the things that make you anxious . If you are a prisoner and suffered from anxiety , there is little option for you . A prisoner may not even realize that he or she is in anxiousity , or afraid that this is a madness . Anxiety can appear suddenly . Therefore , the prisoner try to solve anxiety in different ways . They may feel rising of the blood pressure , and because they do not understand why or how to cure it , they will get angry to official prison or to other prisoners . They may hit , damaging the cell or hurt themselves . Some prisoners that cause fire said that if they see fire (make fire) , all the difficulties would be lost , the pressure would come to relax . Exactly they may do that because they have other reasons , but it is important to remind that the prisoners do not have a lot of ways and options to do to overcome their anxiety . They may be acting strange or disturbing , because they have no other media to wreak pressure