Minggu, 20 Oktober 2013

children have a life of their own


Children have a life of their own . He does not have to be a duplicate you . Toddlers want to grow and develop into her own . Girls do not have to dress up to imitate her mother , boys also do not have to imitate the style of the father . The world would be better if everyone had a ' color ' , respectively . Realize immediately , do not want to be stuck mini me undergo parenting .
Love your child unconditionally . " You loved your mother and father that according to the mother and father " is a form of conditional love . Realize , you give birth to human beings with unique personal , different interests , talents and with your environment . She needs help to develop all their potential , not demands to be the way you want , like you .
Prioritize children . Not that you neglect yourself and your marriage . That is, say " no " when it should say . Do not merely say " yes " in order to deal with children quickly finished . By saying " yes " to any demands of children , meaning you do not give priority to children . You put yourself, so no need for long averse to dealing with children aka dizzy !
Understand how children grow . Take the time to understand how your toddler develop at any stage of its development . By doing so , you hope the child is more realistic . By omonglah with other parents , read parenting books and children's development . Every child is different , and every family situation is also unique . However, there are general guidelines what can be expected of a child at any stage of its development . Help your child realize milestones do anything with children to bring up a child's ability to have, which could have been very different with you .
Understand the changing times . You do not be in the past when corporal punishment your parents applied for any mistakes you make . Times are changing , people are getting legal literacy . When you medisiplin with physical punishment , or with harsh words and rude , you might dicokok law on charges of domestic violence, child abuse category !

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