Shy
Child Psychology and Quiet
Educating children was tricky , even easier than raising
him . If
you are too simplistic in educating children can make a child feel too free or
unnoticed . But
if you educate too hard , can make children feel depressed and rebellious . There are many that
highlight the problem of educating children .
Emotional Child
Emotional development of children often make parents
confused . Quite often
that react expressively and hard . Even
parents often feel anxious or worried about the changes that occur in children
. Including
when the child turns into a shy , quiet , and solitude .
Feelings of shame in children began to emerge at the age of one year . At that time shame arises because the child has begun to distinguish between people who are already known to those who considered foreigners . The humiliation does not appear suddenly , but could be due to the temperament of the child from birth or due to the effect of treatment on the child's parents .
Feelings of shame in children began to emerge at the age of one year . At that time shame arises because the child has begun to distinguish between people who are already known to those who considered foreigners . The humiliation does not appear suddenly , but could be due to the temperament of the child from birth or due to the effect of treatment on the child's parents .
High Expectations
There are several types of treatment the parents who make
children become shy . Among
them , too high expectations from parents to children . The
parents expect children to be someone who ' superior ' . Both
related to intelligence , wit , expression , humor , and physical development .
But
the parents' expectations can actually turn out to be for children when
excessive pressure .
Many child psychology articles that highlight the excesses of parents in protecting children , it will give adverse effects on the child . Parents who are overly protective , many provide the prohibition of , or restrictions will only make children become afraid to do and shame on the people around him .
In educating children , parents are usually stuck on various fears and face the aggravation of psychological development of children. Prohibition or restriction of the parents is a reflection of fear when the kids want to play will be dirty , disease , falls , or other fears . While on the other hand , when a child shows stubbornness and freedom of expression is often perceived as an annoying burden that parents need to be restricted .
Competition
While other factors that affect a child being shy is sibling rivalry or peers . A child who is active will be sociable , cheerful , and easily attract attention . While the children are passive tend to withdraw because of lack of response to the other children . These conditions will make children become increasingly shy and depressed .
Faced with such children , parents need to let go of ambition in educating children . Many child psychology articles that emphasize that parents give freedom to the child , to feel what he wanted . Especially when children aged 1-5 years , the freedom of expression it will develop into a person's psyche active child . So that the child will not be embarrassed or afraid to its environment .
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