Humans are born with
the desire to be loved and loving. But, love
can not be the only reason to get married. It
sounds romantic, yes, if there are couples
who decide to get married as crazy
about each other. However,
the success of a marriage based on a strong friendship built by each strong
spouse. Foundation including suitability for a
marriage, trust, and
communication. There is a triangular theory
of love. Here's the explanation.
Love triangle in question here is not
that often we hear of a third party in a relationship. Rather, the three
components of love (triangular theory of love) by Robert Sternberg. Sternberg
explains that there are three components of love, namely: intimacy, Passion and
commitment.
1. Intimacy- The include feelings of attachment, closeness, connectedness, etc.
2.Passion- The covering between romantic love and sexual attraction.
3.Commitment- That decision to stay with friends for a long time.
Different combinations of these three components result in different types of love. For example, the combination of intimacy and commitment in compassionate love (compassionate love), while the combination of passion and intimacy lead to passionate love (passionate love).
1. Intimacy- The include feelings of attachment, closeness, connectedness, etc.
2.Passion- The covering between romantic love and sexual attraction.
3.Commitment- That decision to stay with friends for a long time.
Different combinations of these three components result in different types of love. For example, the combination of intimacy and commitment in compassionate love (compassionate love), while the combination of passion and intimacy lead to passionate love (passionate love).
Sternberg introduced the term perfect
love (Consummate love) to describe the combination of intimacy, passion and
commitment. Relationships are built on two individuals would be perfect if it
is based on a combination of all three. Even so, Sternberg doubted the existence
of perfect love in this world, how about you ?
There are several theories of love that we know and we have not learned. However, some theories of love that we have seen at least be able to explain about the love stuff that is considered "abstract".
There are several theories of love that we know and we have not learned. However, some theories of love that we have seen at least be able to explain about the love stuff that is considered "abstract".
Reference :
Lee, JA (1973). Colours of love: an exploration of the ways of loving. Toronto: New Press
Lee, JA (1973). Colours of love: an exploration of the ways of loving. Toronto: New Press
Robert J. Sternberg, "Triangulating Love", in
T. J. Oord ed . The Altruism Reader (2007)
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