BE THE PERSON WHO ASERTIF

Simply put, asertif is an interpersonal personality traits in which the person who has it is capable of stating his opinion, idea, kekritisannya, her feelings in ways that don't hurt others. For more details, here is the difference between an aggressive behavior, asertif and non asertif.

Aggression means you:

1. Maintain your own rights so violated the rights of others.

2. Ignore and reject the beliefs, opinions, feelings, desires, emotions, attitudes, data, information or involvement of others.

3. Express or demanding attention to opinion, needs or your feelings in a way that is not appropriate.

Asertif means you:

1. defending itself but not to ignore or threatens the rights of others.

2. Involve the feelings and beliefs of others as part of an interaction with them.

3. express your own feelings and beliefs in a manner that is open, direct, honest and right.

Non asertif means you:

1. ignore the rights themselves, failing to defend yourself, and let other people ignore the rights themselves.

2. Forgive or ' extinguish ' ideas, feelings, attitudes, beliefs or the information yourself.

3. avoid the expression of the feelings or needs of yourself in a situation where you actually expected for it.

Asertif effective involves what are known as ' I messages ' that You alone should be responsible for your feelings – you state your reaction than what others have done. For example: instead of saying, ' dare you cut my talks ... ', a asertif would say, ' I feel disturbed when you cut my talks ... '

A positive consequence:

1. make you easier to give and receive compliments. Right you are rewarded because you also respect the rights of others.

2. Can prevent themselves from people wanting help, which makes no sense from you.

3. can overcome small annoyances and prevent it from becoming conflicts.

4. Be someone independent who was instrumental in the juice, time and your own common sense.

5. be yourself, believe in the face of others.

Negative consequences:

1. the life of a person who asertif does not always run smoothly.

2. often viewed as people who are rude or impolite.

3. how we are voicing our opinions can be considered encouraging someone else to do something.

Simply put, asertif is an interpersonal personality traits in which the person who has it is capable of stating his opinion, idea, kekritisannya, her feelings in ways that don't hurt others. Thus there is a proverb that says that your mouth is your Tigers.