personality

PERSONALITY

In this human life introduced with 2 choices between good and bad, rokib and Atid, etc.. All be related to each other or complement each other, even going to need each other, for example if there are no bad people, there is no one who can be said to be good. But all depends on the personality of individuals.

In personality psychology there is a theory that discusses the three systems of human personality, namely psychoanalysis spearheaded by a character named Sigmund Freud. Freud's personality system classifies people into three, namely the id, ego, and super ego. Id which is a basic human impulse that originated since birth and can not be destroyed. Id have the pleasure principle is always encouraging the appetites, until id have to satisfy properties for immediate enjoyment. While Ego is something that bridges between the id and the super ego. Id and the ego comes from growing at the age of about 2 years, also has a reality principle that served to distinguish between the real with fantasy, as well as having properties for pleasure procrastinate until there is no conflict between the id and the super ego. In contrast to the id and ego, super ego is a value derived from the growth and development of the id and ego and appear at approximately 3 years of age are affected by the environment. Super ego principle of morality principle has served to direct the ego on reality.

Having explored turns Freud's concept of the organs of the human body that does not exist, in other words the concept of metaphysics Freud only entity that serves as a method to decide on a problem that involves a consideration to look for a way out, maybe the reason could be accepted as an application between the id and the super ego as a judgment while the ego is used as a way to determine the conflict between the id and the ego. If it is based on the concept of Islam is no desire (id) and aql (super ego) as a motivation to do something good, but again the problem is deciding qalb (ego). And there rokib and Atid as our motivation to be better. So there's actually a connection between the concept of Islam with psychology but just different terms and principles.

motivation

MOTIVATION

In everyday life we ​​definitely will be confronted by competition from out of school, business, etc. Without competition there is no success anyway, because of the competition it is no such thing as motivation for success. RS Wood worth (Efendi, 1983:71-73) conducted experiment on the motivation, the result is one of competition (competition).

Motivation itself is a human impulse that makes it do something to make a change. Ex: a child who is lazy to learn, but it turns out he promised his parents a gift, so to get a gift this child will try and learn in earnest. He made the gift as motivation (reason) he studied.

Can be concluded that the motivation is encouragement in a person to achieve success through intense competitions. Motivation was born not only of speech motivator, but motivation may appear to everyone who has a strong embroidery. Motivation will grow along with the awareness of one's self to change themselves for the better. Factors that affect one's motivation occurs largely in the medium community, to achieve success. Motivation not only leads to success, there are also some in the community who are motivated in negative terms, such as dilator background by revenge etc..

But with high motivation and strong embroidery all that difficult any will be easy and will definitely end in happiness.
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daydream

Daydream

daydream is one of the regular activities if there is no activity whatsoever. Usually people who daydream was caused by upset, sad, forgotten, could have been as happy. Daydreaming can also be said to dream without sleeping, not meaningfull with dreams in his sleep. But it is a dreamy fantasy building when awakened, and usually people who romanticize it to imagine (fantasize) about the problems that he faced at this time. Daydreaming it is an activity which is weird because they keep the brain active while daydreaming.

In fact, daydreaming may be the only time when this area active stimulant, this suggests that daydreaming could lead to new insights into the problems we are experiencing (fleck et al., 2008; kounios et al., 2008)

Biyasanya not the only problem we experienced alone but can also daydream about the shadow of the future. The place used to daydream usually comfortable and peaceful place according eg under trees, beaches, etc are identic with solitude. Most people who romanticize do during the day and at night, either intentionally or unintentionally daydreaming. People who mostly daydreaming (love) will result in sequestration of time to activities for the things in vain, not even get to solve their own problems, and encourage individuals to imagine things that are scary. So do not use your time to daydream but just take your time to worthwhile activities yes.,.,.,., Ok!
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self

self-concept

everyone should have a self-concept, in the absence of the concept of human dignity will not know the weaknesses and strengths of themselves they would live as if psikophenim who do not know want to do anything. Previously the concept itself is our perception of all aspects of self that includes the physical aspects, social aspects, psychological aspects, which are based on our experiences and interactions with others.

Meanwhile, William D. Brooks said in his speech communication "self concept then, can be defined as those psysical, social, and psychological perceptions of our selves that we have derived from our experience and interaction with other" (Brooks, 1971: 64). So not only yourself but also concerning themselves with the community.

With our self-concept can improve the nature of ourselves through the Window concept. Window concept which is square and is divided into 4 parts. The first section contains what we know and other people know about us, the second part we do not know yet others know (talent), the third section is filled about other people we know but do not know (secret), and the fourth is filled on I do not know, other people do not know (hope). Automatic all about ourselves will we know, and we can correct deficiencies and improve the quality of ourselves to be better, and we will be motivated to achieve the expectations that we want. However fruition or not depend no one’s self-concept, if the concept itself is weak then to reach the target, it takes a high motivasion and determination, if necessary, there always reminding.

Unlike the people who have self-concepts they already have the potential to apply in daily life because they already have a high motivation in itself, so they do not need another supporting factor, but he Himself is enough to achieve what he wants. So, success can only be achieved by those who have the self-concept of course accompanied with prayer and effort.

forget

forget

Certainly often have we forgotten why we could forget ? ? ? , Underlying many possibilities we forget one of them is not so concerned , it could be pristiwa it was not important and was not even on our personal concerns . Usually people remember it as dangerous , sad , or happy . In addition it can also be caused by a forgotten memory decay) .

Decay is the loss of information because it is not used . This explanation for the phenomenon of forgetting assume that the trace memory , the physical changes that occur in brain when new material is learned, will disappear over time ( Grann , 2007 ) . So when we get a new knowledge - the knowledge of the old knowledge that was never in use will memory decay ( decay ) . URLs are composed of a stack of books the book on the basis of the arrangement will be damaged due to a growing pile of books .

That ordinary people are experiencing is due Forgot dependence on sign , depending on the sign that we remember . For example : we forgot to put the key , until we go about our daily activities , when we remember we will search our memory and recall . Start of hold the key to the present but still not remember it because of the new memory is mixed with a long memory , the event is a decaying memory trace .

But it helps us to forget , because forgetting is a gift given by God to his servant . Imagine if we did not forget , for sure we will have psikophenim because too much memory that we get .