juvenile Delinquency

There was a mother who lives in Jakarta told me that since the rampant cases of student brawls in Jakarta , he took the initiative to drop off and pick up her son who is in high school, a habit he had never done before . How not to cringe , if students are not part of it - had come under attack ?Why the students were so frequent brawls , as if they already do not have common sense , and can not think which one is useful and what is not ? Why too many teenagers who do drugs and free sex ? What is wrong with all this ?As already highlighted in another article on this site , teens are those aged between 12-21 years . Teens will experience a period of physical and psychological development as follows :

    Pre - pubertal period ( 12-13 years )

    The onset of puberty ( 14-16 years )

    The end of puberty ( 17-18 years )

    And adolescents adolesen period ( 19-21 years )The pre - pubertal ( 12-13 years )This period is also called pueral period , ie the transition from childhood to adolescence. In girls , this period is shorter than the boys . At this time , major changes occur in adolescents , the hormone increased sexuality and began development of the sexual organs and reproductive organs teens . In addition, the rapid development of the intellect jga occur in this phase . As a result , these teenagers tend to be like criticizing ( because he knew everything ) , which is often manifested in the form of defiance or disproof of the old man , started like an adult he thinks is right , and make it as a " hero " or a hero . This behavior will be followed by imitating everything done by the hero , like hairstyle , style of speech , to worship the living habits .Moreover , in this age also tend to be more daring teenager express her desires , bolder opinion, even going as hard as possible to maintain his opinion . This is often taken by parents as insubordination . Teens do not want to be treated as a child. They would rather hang out with a group that considered in accordance with his pleasure . They are also the parents dare to defy tradition which he considered archaic and no / less useful , as well as the regulations which they say is unwarranted , as there may be another place to stop by after school , and so on . They will increasingly lose interest in joining the formal social groups , and tend to join with friends of his choice. For example , they would choose a place to play his best friend rather than as a visit to a relative's house .But , at the same time , they also need help and support that is always available from the parents , if they are not capable of transforming wishes. At the moment this is a critical time . If parents are not able to meet the psychological needs to resolve the conflict at the time, teens will seek it from someone else . Parents should remember that the problems faced by teenagers , although for older people it is a trivial matter , but for teenagers it is an issue that is very, very heavy . Parents should not be thinking , "Oh my gosh ... that's a small thing . Period you could not finish ? Stupid you are ! " , And so on . But attention as if the parents understand that the problem was so heavy for teens , will be recorded in the adolescent brain that parents are the best way out for him ang . This will facilitate the parents to direct their children psychic development .The onset of puberty ( 14-16 years )This period is also called early adolescence , where their physical development is so prominent . Teenagers are very worried about physical development , and proud that it shows that he is not a child anymore . At this time , teenage emotions become very unstable due to the development of sexual hormones that are so rapidly . Strong sexual desire also start appearing at this time . In young women is marked by the arrival of the first period , whereas in adolescent pris marked by the arrival of the first wet dream . Teens will feel confused and ashamed about this , so parents must accompany and provide a better understanding and correct about sexuality . If this fails handled properly , their psychological development especially in terms of the introduction of self / gender and sexuality will be disrupted . Cases of many gay and lesbian teenagers begins with the failure of the development at this stage .In addition , adolescents begin to understand about prestige , appearance , and sexual attraction . Because they added confusion due to the influence of emotional volatility sexuality , teen dived hard feelings . Sometimes they are rude , sometimes soft . Sometimes dreamy , other times he is so cheerful . Adolescents in the social feeling is getting stronger , and they join a group that likes and make the rules in their own mind .The end of puberty ( 17-18 years )At this time , teens are able to get through the previous well , will be able to accept their nature , as both men and women . They are also proud of their bodies are considered to determine their self-esteem . This period is very short . In young women , this period lasts shorter than boys , so the girls mature faster than boys achieved . Physical maturity and sexuality generally they are fully achieved . But the psychological maturity has not fully achieved .Adolesen adolescent period ( 19-21 years )In this period generally teenagers has reached perfect maturity , both in terms of physical , emotional , or psychological . They will learn so many things and begin to fight for an abstract idealism derived from their minds . They began to realize that it's much easier to criticize than to live . His attitude towards life starts to look clear , like his ideals , interests , talents , and so on . Towards life as well as the properties that stand out will be obvious at this stage .juvenile delinquencyJuvenile delinquency is usually done by teenagers who failed to undergo the processes of development of his soul , either in adolescence or in childhood . Childhood and adolescence lasts so short , the development of physical, psychological , and emotional so quickly . Psychologically , juvenile delinquency is a manifestation of the conflicts are not resolved properly in childhood and adolescent offenders . Often found that there was trauma in her past , rude and unpleasant treatment of the environment , as well as trauma to the environmental conditions , such as economic conditions that made ​​him feel inferior , and so on.Tackle juvenile delinquency , teenage emotions meant re-arrange torn it . Damaged their emotions and feelings because they feel rejected by family , parents , friends , and the environment since childhood, and the failure of the mental development of the youth. Traumas in her life to be resolved, psychological conflicts that hanging should be resolved  and they should be given a different environment from the previous environment . The question is: who is that all tasks ? Parents - kah ? While the parents are too dizzy to think about the jobs and other life expenses. Brother - kah ? They also have their own problems, they may even also have the same problem. Government-kah? Or who? Not easy to answer. However, provide a good environment from an early age, along with an understanding of the development of our children properly, will help reduce juvenile delinquency. Minimum does not increase the number of existing cases.

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