Hard water Watering cases, mirrors the bad Attention Parents on Children

A child is like getting enough attention from her parents. This attention not only from the physical side, but also the development of emotions. Enough attention allows children to have a good personality quality.

But instead, the physical and emotional imbalance of attention can cause children don't have a good personality. This is for example tecermin from hard water watering cases which occurred in public transit some time ago.

Am aka RN (18), perpetrators of watering, claiming to do so over the motive of revenge. The perpetrators claimed to be a similar treatment ever got from students of other schools, and obtain the chemical fluids from one of his friend.

"There are at least 4 things that support the implementation of the acts of watering using hard water. The first is the quality of personality, and the history of previous similar incidents. This is supported by the absence of environmental interventions on the perpetrator and providing the opportunity to do this Act, "said psychologist Kassandra Putranto you call on Wednesday (10/9/2013).

The quality of the child's personality, says Kassandra, depend on the nurturing and attention received from the environment, especially parents. With care and attention, the child will think of first, a result of the actions that he did against others. When it is detrimental, then such action would help do.

Attention and a good upbringing also allows children open at whatever problem you're experiencing. Sufficient attention even lets parents know the problem children before they say it. Furthermore, children and parents can intervene to resolve the matter. This raises the child have nature spiteful.

In the case of hard water, watering Kassandra highlight the lack of attention that you may receive offender. "Maybe the perpetrators already showed signs of a bad incident halfway through. But because of the minimal attention, he's so save everything myself without any intervention, "he said.

It supported the character actors who might be reticent, and the environment that provides a way out of the criminal-smelling.

Learn from this case, Kassandra says, it's time parents more accountable on fruit hatiya. One form of liability is concerned that not only physical, but also emotional. Enough attention determine the quality of a child's personality.

"Bad boy Personality came from parents with quality is not much different. Given enough attention and shape the personality of the child as soon as possible, "said Kassandra.